From Vulnerability to Recovery: The Story of Lalita Rai
At 88 years old, Lalita Rai, affectionately known as “Lalita Aama (mother)” or “Boju (elderly lady)” embodies resilience, dignity, and gratitude. Born in 1939, her life has been shaped by hardship, loss, and perseverance. She is the second wife of late Gurkha veteran Singha Bahadur Rai. Although they had no children together, they shared a supportive and caring relationship until his passing in December 2005.
Following her husband’s death, Lalita faced an uncertain future. The family owned only a small portion of agricultural land which was insufficient to support a sustainable livelihood. As a widow living with limited financial resources and minimal social support, she became increasingly vulnerable. Despite these challenges, she continued to live independently, drawing on her inner strength and determination to endure difficult circumstances.
Finding Care and Security Through GWT
During a particularly challenging period of her life, Lalita learned about the support available through the Area Welfare Centre (AWC) Phidim and the Residential Home. Recognising her need for security, healthcare, and companionship, she applied for admission and was welcomed into Dharan Residential Home on 19 June 2014.
Since that day, the home has provided much more than accommodation. It has given her a safe and caring environment where her physical, emotional, and social needs are met. Driven by a deep commitment to the well-being of Gurkha veterans and their families, she receives nutritious meals, regular medical care, personal support, and the companionship of fellow residents and staff.
Over the years, Lalita has become a beloved member of the community. Known for her cheerful personality and positive outlook, she is respected by residents and staff alike. She frequently expresses gratitude for the care she receives.
A Serious Setback
In May 2026, Lalita experienced one of the most difficult challenges of her later years, suffering a fall resulting in two severe injuries: an intertrochanteric fracture of the right hip and an olecranon fracture of the right elbow. At her age, such injuries can often lead to prolonged immobility, loss of independence, and a significant decline in quality of life.
Lalita required immediate medical attention, and following a clinical evaluation and assessment, arrangements were made for surgery at the B.P. Koirala Institute of Health Sciences in Dharan. She remained in hospital for seven days before returning to the home for rehabilitation and recovery.
The Road to Recovery
Recovery from simultaneous hip and elbow fractures at the age of 88 presented a significant challenge. However, the coordinated efforts of specialist rehabilitation staff, healthcare professionals, and the team at the Home played a vital role in her journey back to independence.
Following surgery, Lalita participated in a structured rehabilitation programme, alongside emotional support to help her regain confidence in carrying out daily activities.
Just over two months after surgery, Lalita’s progress was remarkable. She was active and alert, walking with minimal support, managing daily activities, and demonstrating excellent functional recovery. Her determination, combined with the dedicated support provided by GWT’s holistic care team, enabled her to regain a level of independence that might otherwise have been difficult to achieve.
A Message of Gratitude and Hope
Today, Lalita continues to enjoy life within the Residential Home community. Her experience reflects the profound impact of donor-supported welfare services that protect some of the most vulnerable members of the Gurkha community.
Reflecting on her experience, Lalita encourages fellow residents to remain vigilant about their safety, “As we grow older every day, our risk of falling increases. Please be careful, stay attentive to your surroundings, and take necessary precautions to prevent falls and injuries. Let us all prioritise our safety and well-being.”