My Father was an 8th Army Desert Rat who survived the Siege of Tobruk, and several other battles. I was born Post WW2, but when I was aged about three, an “army friend” that my Father clearly admired, came to visit us. I was aware of the element of excitement and pleasure the impending visit was causing our entire family, and standing by our front door when the knock came, I beheld the first Gurkha soldier I had ever seen. I watched all the greetings with delight, and one overriding fact caught my attention I was fascinated with his Kukuri. Eventually he sat and chatted with me, and inevitably I asked him if I could see his ‘sword’ please? My Father told me to mind my manners, but my lovely new friend seemed very proud to show me, and having assured Dad that it was fine, he withdrew the weapon from its sheath, and nicked his thumb before holding it carefully and allowing me to study the weapon, but of course I was not allowed to touch it. I was horrified that he had cut himself and beseeched my Mother for a plaster. He smiling broadly, returned the weapon, and to my absolute delight picked me up and sat me on his lap. I cannot recall another incident of my early childhood that brought me more pleasure, than being shown such kindness by my Fathers friend. Sadly his visit wasn’t a very long one, and I cannot recall his name. Several years later Dad shared with me, that the Gurkhas are the bravest men he ever fought alongside. He also said that had it not been for his friend, he might not have been able to return from the war. I have much to thank the Gurkhas for, and respect them deeply.
Vonnie Pearce

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